Saturday, February 19, 2011

Bok Tower Gardens

Room to run, beautiful flowers AND a bonafide singing tower: what isn’t there to love?

For the inaugural trip on Mission: Learn to Like Tampa, we ventured a little further out to Lake Wales FL to visit the Bok Tower Gardens. It’s about 90 minutes outside of Tampa but a pretty easy drive; once we left Hillsborough county, traffic and the drivers seem to mellow out considerably. The terrain remains flat but we enjoyed picking out the horses, cows, orange groves and farmlands that populate the landscape.

The trip started out with a bang, or rather a splat when I wasn’t paying close enough attention to Kei Li as she too eagerly sprang from her car seat and onto the pavement landing on her face.

That other sound you hear is the applause as I accept my 132nd award for Mother of the Year.

Luckily we’re a tough bunch of girls and after a few tears were dried we ventured into the grounds. I was immediately struck by how quiet and shady and peaceful it was. The Bok Tower Gardens are part of the late Edward Bok’s estate located on a hilly ridge adjacent to Lake Wales. Designed by Frederick Law Olmstead Jr, the gardens were built by Bok to offer refuge for the native wildlife. The crowning piece is the neo-Gothic Singing Tower that sits atop the hill (298 feet above sea level).

Between the breathtaking view of the surrounding groves and the tower’s carillon bells serenading us, we found much to occupy us during the three hour visit. There are many paths and little gardens tucked behind rows of trees and brush and the girls loved the adventure of finding the next “secret” garden. Most of our time was spent weaving in and out of the different paths (some paved, some dirt, some with mulch) looking for the next pond or garden or chasing after chattering squirrels. The girls became totally enamored with the snapdragons after one of the volunteers pointed out how to make the dragon shaped blooms “snap.”

Once we finally made it to the top of the hill we were amazed at how such a short up hill walk (if you took a direct route) rewarded us with a real view of the area. The pond had koi and swans which the girls had to feed. The swans only made one half-hearted attempt to eat Mei-Lin (insert maternal panic attack here) but then contented themselves with the entire handful of feed she hastily threw at them after getting her leg nipped. Crisis averted. If they had become more aggressive I probably would have run screaming like crazy person and some stranger would have had to rescue her from their beaks of terror. I do not mess with birds. Ever. Anyways, after the swan attack I pulled them back to run the huge lawn and rolled them down the grassy slopes.

We had a fantastic time. The serenity of Bok Tower Gardens was the perfect antidote for the spirit crushing caused by the State Fair just a few days earlier. Highly recommended.


Saturday, February 12, 2011

A Reboot

Tampa and I just don’t get along. On good days, I would characterize our relationship as similar to that of two opposing signs of the zodiac, like snakes and pigs, we just don’t mesh well. On bad days, it’s more like I’m having an allergic reaction and my irrational, intense aversion to our current home city will cause me to break out into hives. After a trip to the Florida State Fair yesterday, I again found myself stewing in distaste for Tampa. State fairs bring out the worst in people, including me. Carnival rides and fried Twinkies attract crowds of the morbidly obese, loud, boorish personalities and then encourages them to BE MORE SO. Also, there were a lot of Scientologists and other Christian fanatics trying to talk to me about Armageddon which will put anyone (except maybe Tom Cruise and Sarah Palin) in a pissy mood.

This morning as I was (again) complaining to Ryan over Skype about Tampa, it occurred to me that I need an attitude adjustment. Really, I’m not overly negative person but I find myself fixating all the things I hate about it here. The flatness. The bugs. The aggressive drivers who absolutely, positively must get to that red light ahead of you and everyone else. The terrible smoothie shops. I could go on. And on. And on. (And totally will if you ask!)

Everyone should be able to have their “thing”—that little bit of unsupported neurosis or hatred of something (like, mushrooms or scorpions). But hating an entire city is ignorant and lame and only making me miserable. Which brings me to my mission: getting to know Tampa a little better. I vow to visit at least one new Tampa Bay area site each week for the next 3 months: a museum, park, restaurant or shop and will document it here for posterity, whether people read it or not.

The awesomely crafty Sonia forwarded this city guide from Design Sponge and I thought it would be a great way to start. If anyone knows of any cool restaurants or a shop in Tampa I should check out, please let me know. I’ve also found a few other blogs about getting to know Tampa so it seems I’m not alone! Except, perhaps I can be a bit more of a judgey bitch than some of those other bloggers.

Tampa better bring it.